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From Fear to Freedom: The Habits That Spark Innovation and Growth



Innovation often feels like a mysterious and intimidating word. In a world that seems to be spinning out of control—with artificial intelligence taking over roles once reserved for experts—it’s easy to feel small, outdated, or irrelevant. Every industry is shifting. No profession is safe. And yet, in the middle of this uncertainty, one man reframed innovation for me in a way I’ll never forget.

That man is Wilfred Chege, a deeply analytical mind I admire. He was invited to speak to a group of men on innovation. But instead of dazzling us with charts, technology, or futuristic predictions, he spoke about something far simpler—yet infinitely more powerful.

He spoke about courage.

And that struck me deeply, because courage is the very heartbeat of innovation. Without courage, we remain stuck, repeating the same safe patterns, afraid to step outside the lines others have drawn for us.

1. Breaking the Chains of Fear and Conditioning

Wilfred reminded us of something we’ve all seen but rarely think about: how elephants and horses are trained. As calves or foals, they are tied to a rope or a pole. At first, they resist. They pull and struggle, but the restraint holds firm. Over time, they learn the rope cannot be broken. Years later, that same powerful animal—now grown and powerful—can be tied to a flimsy chair and will not even attempt to move.

The battle is no longer with the rope. The battle is in the mind.

And so it is with us. From a young age, many of us were conditioned by uninspired teachers, fearful parents, or limiting environments. We internalized the message: you can’t, you shouldn’t, don’t even try. Like the elephant, our invisible leash keeps us tied down, afraid to reach beyond the familiar.

Fear becomes the greatest enemy of innovation. It whispers that stepping outside the comfort zone is dangerous, that failure defines us, that being “normal” is safer. But here’s the truth: every breakthrough—from starting a business to improving your relationships—requires the courage to confront and break through those invisible chains.

2. Curiosity Over Conformity

Courage alone is not enough. Once you take the first step, what keeps you moving forward is curiosity.

Wilfred himself is a technologist by training. Yet, his most successful ventures came not from his tech expertise, but from stepping into unfamiliar worlds like agribusiness, electricals, and lighting. At first, he knew nothing about these fields. But instead of dismissing them, he asked: What if?

That is the essence of innovation: not knowing everything, but daring to explore.

Think about it. Maybe you’re a finance professional who could run a borehole business. Or a teacher who could thrive in farming. Or a tech person who could succeed in poultry. Africa, especially, is bursting with opportunities for those who are willing to see beyond their specialization.

Curiosity turns setbacks into stepping stones. Open a barbershop that struggles? Instead of giving up, ask questions:

  • What do I need to improve?
  • What can I create, reduce, or remove?
  • Where can I pivot?

Some of the world’s most successful businesses were born not from the original idea, but from a pivot fueled by curiosity. Failure doesn’t mean you are a failure. It simply means something needs to change.

3. The Power of Self-Awareness and Continuous Growth

The final ingredient Wilfred highlighted is self-awareness.

Most of us don’t realize that habits like procrastination, perfectionism, or avoidance aren’t laziness—they’re ways of suppressing uncomfortable emotions like fear, shame, or doubt. Without self-awareness, we get trapped in these cycles.

But with self-awareness, we begin to see clearly:

  • Why do I avoid this task?
  • What emotion am I running from?
  • How can I face it instead of numbing it?

When you combine courage, curiosity, and self-awareness, growth becomes inevitable. But growth doesn’t happen in giant leaps. It’s not about demanding immediate success or chasing overnight victories.

True innovation is a habit. It’s about continuous improvement—making one small, intentional step forward each day. It’s about seeking feedback instead of fearing it. It’s about hiring people smarter than you, learning from them, and embracing criticism as fuel for progress.

Wilfred’s own journey shows this beautifully. He quit a stable job to step into risky ventures with no guarantees. What allowed him to succeed wasn’t blind luck, but the habits of courage, curiosity, and self-awareness. These gave him the resilience to take risks, the humility to consult experts, and the discipline to grow steadily.

Conclusion: The Habit of Bold Innovation

Innovation isn’t about having the next world-changing idea. It’s about cultivating the habits that allow you to step into the unknown with courage, explore with curiosity, and grow with self-awareness.

The invisible leash holding you back is not real—it’s just fear. The opportunities around you are vast, especially if you’re willing to open your eyes and ask new questions. And the only way forward is to embrace small, consistent steps of growth, guided by a willingness to learn.

So, here’s my challenge for you today: What’s one area of your life where fear has kept you tied down? And what small, courageous step can you take this week to break free?

Innovation begins with that choice. Not tomorrow. Not someday. But today.

Call to Action:

If this message resonates with you, I invite you to join my Habit Coaching Program, where we work together to build courage, curiosity, and self-awareness into your daily habits. Let’s break the invisible leashes holding you back and design a life fueled by growth and bold innovation.


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